In my definition, being an adult can’t just according to whether you can make money by yourself. I preferred when you do things independently then you are an adult.
Now I don’t consider myself as an adult. Sometimes I still need my parents to take care of my things. After I graduated high school and go to university in America, when I do things just use my own power then I think I am an adult. But a lot of students think I still need my parents to pay the tuition, it’s not real independence from parents. I think money just one little part in being an adult just like the age. They will not mean anything if you can’t use your own power to solve problems.
To be honest, I am scared to be an adult. I have to face the world by myself and I don’t know what will happen. If I meet the problems, there will be no one to stand out and take care of it. In my childhood my mother take care of everything, from study time to life time. She will manage my time for me and organize things for me. When I am in middle school, I never do things unless you force me to do it or chase after me to remind me. At that time I had a very bad habit that is waiting for my mother to remind me. This bad habit influence me a lot, that let me think I don’t need to worry about anything, many things I depend on my mother.
Being an adult not just change this situation, but also need to improve the situation. Do things without parents just one way to show you have grown up. As an adult, your responsibility is not only yourself but also your family. When you have the ability to take care of parents and you, then you will capable to be an adult.
The way you do things is important so is the way you think. You have to think more, and see things more comprehensive. You can’t think things just around yourself, you have to think more about people around you. You have to think the process and the result before you doing one thing.
Age is nothing, it’s just one number. You can’t say any one is an adult because you are already 18 years old although it’s legally being an adult. But if you still depend on your parents or just thinking about yourself, it’s not a real adult. People will find whether you are an adult from your behavior. You can pay for yourself is also a way to say you are adult, but I think mature behavior is much more important than a well-pay salary.
Now I am going to university, I will leave my motherland and go to a new country. There will be a lot of challenge waiting for me. If I can solve all problem by myself and I can join in this new community successfully. I think at that time I will be an adult.
Now I don’t consider myself as an adult. Sometimes I still need my parents to take care of my things. After I graduated high school and go to university in America, when I do things just use my own power then I think I am an adult. But a lot of students think I still need my parents to pay the tuition, it’s not real independence from parents. I think money just one little part in being an adult just like the age. They will not mean anything if you can’t use your own power to solve problems.
To be honest, I am scared to be an adult. I have to face the world by myself and I don’t know what will happen. If I meet the problems, there will be no one to stand out and take care of it. In my childhood my mother take care of everything, from study time to life time. She will manage my time for me and organize things for me. When I am in middle school, I never do things unless you force me to do it or chase after me to remind me. At that time I had a very bad habit that is waiting for my mother to remind me. This bad habit influence me a lot, that let me think I don’t need to worry about anything, many things I depend on my mother.
Being an adult not just change this situation, but also need to improve the situation. Do things without parents just one way to show you have grown up. As an adult, your responsibility is not only yourself but also your family. When you have the ability to take care of parents and you, then you will capable to be an adult.
The way you do things is important so is the way you think. You have to think more, and see things more comprehensive. You can’t think things just around yourself, you have to think more about people around you. You have to think the process and the result before you doing one thing.
Age is nothing, it’s just one number. You can’t say any one is an adult because you are already 18 years old although it’s legally being an adult. But if you still depend on your parents or just thinking about yourself, it’s not a real adult. People will find whether you are an adult from your behavior. You can pay for yourself is also a way to say you are adult, but I think mature behavior is much more important than a well-pay salary.
Now I am going to university, I will leave my motherland and go to a new country. There will be a lot of challenge waiting for me. If I can solve all problem by myself and I can join in this new community successfully. I think at that time I will be an adult.